So I have been dating someone on my dating app, she lives in California. We got really close to the point where I talked to her brother and her mother. I want to visit her, I really do and I am considering sending her a package with a necklace, a custom-made ring and a custom-made brooch (both made by me). I really enjoy her company and think she’s cute, she loves me and wants to see me.
However, I really like this other girl. She’s from Northern Ireland and lives there. We have a lot in common compared to the other one who I already have another connection with. But, I don’t have a deep connection with her and I’m afraid that she won’t love me so unconditionally as the one in California. However, I can see that she is more mature in some ways and respected my decision not to talk when I had a fever blister.
What I am most worried about though is me doing something wrong. Tomorrow, I am seeing the girl
from Northern Ireland and then pillow talking with the girl from California. In short, I’m having two dates tomorrow.
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But, my parents tell me it’s not cheating because I’m unlikely to meet them soon. They will unlikely meet each other as well unless I introduce them to each other or they find out. In that case, I may be the worst, not because I have two relationships, but because this was all done without the two parties knowing and maybe they don’t want that.
Should I tell? I know perhaps they won’t see each other and maybe I won’t see either of them in the end, even though I am trying. They are exclusively online for now and my parents imply that it will become official once I meet them, which I believe partially. However, I don’t want either of them to believe I am not a good girlfriend. I love them both equally. I want to meet them both. I want to honor and respect them both, however I am not confrontational and when I tried to get an anwser from my parents, it was strange. I don’t know if it’s true or they do not understand exclusively online relationships. I want to figure this during quarantine and fast. I don’t want to come off as sleazy tomorrow for the Northern Irish date and my other date (my parents have been calling them friends and for myself as well until I meet them in person). What to do?!
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