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How do I tell if I'm bisexual?
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How do I tell if I'm bisexual?
Hi I how do tell if I'm bisexual? I would really like to know, iv tried quizzes but I'm not sure.
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Re: How do I tell if I'm bisexual?
Hi Forri,
So, before we get into the details, I think an important starting place is to remember that you are the ultimate decider when it comes to what label, if any, you use to describe your sexual orientation. We can certainly offer information and advice, but at the end of day you're the expert on what language resonates with you and describes your experiences.
A starting place I really like is a section in this article: The Rainbow Connection: Orientation for Everyone. Under the heading "How and When Do you Know?" are a bunch of things to consider when trying to puzzle out your sexual orientation. For instance, when you think about who you have/had crushes on or attraction to, are they all people of one gender? Or have there been multiple genders represented?
So, before we get into the details, I think an important starting place is to remember that you are the ultimate decider when it comes to what label, if any, you use to describe your sexual orientation. We can certainly offer information and advice, but at the end of day you're the expert on what language resonates with you and describes your experiences.
A starting place I really like is a section in this article: The Rainbow Connection: Orientation for Everyone. Under the heading "How and When Do you Know?" are a bunch of things to consider when trying to puzzle out your sexual orientation. For instance, when you think about who you have/had crushes on or attraction to, are they all people of one gender? Or have there been multiple genders represented?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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- Posts: 7
- Joined: Fri May 19, 2023 6:51 am
- Age: 15
- Awesomeness Quotient: I'm queer oh yeah! 🏳️🌈
- Primary language: English
- Pronouns: She/her
- Sexual identity: Trans and maybe bisexual
- Location: Brecon
Re: How do I tell if I'm bisexual?
Thank you for replying, this is very helpful.
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- Sexual identity: queer
- Location: Coast
Re: How do I tell if I'm bisexual?
You're very welcome!
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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