Partner's possible pregnancy

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5er
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Partner's possible pregnancy

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So I had unprotected sex with my partner a few times recently. I didn't ejaculate, however I had done so earlier that day, and during intercourse some precum definitely got inside. They haven't had their period this month so understandably we're somewhat concerned. I'd say we're a healthy couple, we can talk to each other about stuff, and we understand they have options and choice about those options.

I am wondering though, how should I go about this? I understand it's a pretty big deal if I actually have impregnated them, and I tend to overthink about how they may be feeling which stresses me out. Just looking for general advice, I suppose
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Re: Partner's possible pregnancy

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Hey 5er!

You are right, direct contact with pre-ejaculate can cause pregnancy. The best thing you can do now is support her in getting a pregnancy test in a few weeks. How do you feel about that?
5er
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Re: Partner's possible pregnancy

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That's exactly my plan. I'm actually going to try and see them today, and if that's not possible then I'm also seeing them on Friday. Will post again with results
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