How do I get a vibrator without my parents knowing?

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How do I get a vibrator without my parents knowing?

Unread post by dunnout »

I'm 15, and my parents (and especially my mom) are hardcore catholics so we've never had 'the talk' before. I'm from Croatia, and I've tried googling how to get a vibrator but all seem to involve getting giftcards for stores we don't even have here. I've masturbated before, but one of my online friends mentioned it's 'way more pleasing with a vibrator'. It'd be really cool if anyone helped out!
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Re: How do I get a vibrator without my parents knowing?

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Hi Dunnout,

Your best bet in this instance may be to try some ways to safely D.I.Y a vibrator. You can read about how to do that here: https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sex ... ve-edition

Too, I do want to say that using a vibrator or sex toy doesn't automatically make masturbation more enjoyable. Our bodies are incredibly varied in terms of what they like and don't like during masturbation, and what feels amazing to one person may feel underwhelming to another. So, it may be worth it to also explore masturbating without a vibrator to see how that feels for you.
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