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awesome1122
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girl i know

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theres this girl at my school i know who whenever she sees me she follows me in a creepy sort of way what should i do :| she also recently started trying to talk to me and i dont know what to say based on what she has done :|
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Can you explain what she's doing that's creepy? I don't feel like I have a good enough grasp on the particulars of the situation to give much advice. It could be that she's interested in getting to know you better and isn't sure how to do that in a way that doesn't feel odd to you.
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awesome1122
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Re: girl i know

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whats creepy is she pretty much kinda stalks me
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Hi awesome,

So, she follows you around and similar? Have you noticed her doing that at places that are not school (like turning up at places you're going with friends) or noticed her following you online as well?

If you're not feeling comfortable talking to her, it's okay to set a boundary where you don't (e.g if she starts talking and you feel uncomfortable telling her that you have somewhere to go and then going)
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Re: girl i know

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Stalking is a very serious thing (and is also a crime), so I just wanted to check in since you haven't responded. If stalking is indeed what's been happening here, we're happy to help you to do the things you can to report and otherwise address it so that you can be safe.
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