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by Ashleah
Thu Apr 16, 2015 8:19 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Packers?
Replies: 11
Views: 4246

Re: Packers?

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by Ashleah
Thu Apr 02, 2015 5:21 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Told my FWB I love him
Replies: 3
Views: 2341

Re: Told my FWB I love him

Hi Zooey, Not having feelings reciprocated in the same way is definitely tough, especially since it's so new :( I think it is really important to consider what you want/feel and how much that matches up with what your ex is looking for. And not JUST the fact that you want to continue being with this...
by Ashleah
Mon Mar 23, 2015 9:32 am
Forum: Pregnancy and Parenting
Topic: Teen Mom and the Media
Replies: 0
Views: 5529

Teen Mom and the Media

Tonight, the original women of '16 and Pregnant' and 'Teen Mom' are back (and I'm low key excited)! Back in 2009, MTV started something we've never seen before by documenting the experiences of teens as they navigated their experience with pregnancy and parenting. Viewers get to follow along as teen...
by Ashleah
Sun Mar 22, 2015 7:47 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Therapy
Replies: 5
Views: 4146

Re: Therapy

Bgrace, checking into the Help Near You page. It is giving me some trouble as well. In the mean time Kittens has given some great suggestions. Going through a healthcare provider you know and trust can be helpful. If you give me more information about your location (zip or county) I can help you loc...
by Ashleah
Thu Mar 19, 2015 6:33 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Birth control question!
Replies: 3
Views: 1369

Re: Birth control question!

The best indication that you are not pregnant is by taking a pregnancy test and getting negative results. But as Sam said, a withdrawal bleed indicates no pregnancy occurred.
by Ashleah
Thu Mar 19, 2015 6:16 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Therapy
Replies: 5
Views: 4146

Re: Therapy

Hi Bgrace, First I'd just like to let you know how much I admire that you are taking such an active role in your mental healthcare and well being, even when you are not getting much support. Helping you locate services you are comfortable with is certainly something that we can do! You can use our H...
by Ashleah
Wed Mar 18, 2015 5:47 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Traveling and Illness = Late Period?
Replies: 1
Views: 1108

Re: Traveling and Illness = Late Period?

Hi Jaie, I can't give you any specific information about the impact of travel and illness but I can tell you that a number of things can affect your period. It's not uncommon for there to be some variance, and a few days falls within the typical range. Here is a article that can give you more inform...
by Ashleah
Mon Mar 16, 2015 9:10 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: How to be less obsessive over a recent ex...?
Replies: 15
Views: 5706

Re: How to be less obsessive over a recent ex...?

Hey! Yes chat is a service that you can utilize but should not, and can not, be used in place of any mental health services. Check out the Help Near You section first and let me know if you have any issues locating services. Honestly, I think it will be very difficult for you to process your feeling...
by Ashleah
Sat Mar 14, 2015 2:04 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: How to be less obsessive over a recent ex...?
Replies: 15
Views: 5706

Re: How to be less obsessive over a recent ex...?

The end of a relationship is tough! And given the length of your relationship, this is something you have been dealing with for a relatively short amount of time. It's even more complicated because you two have not taken any time apart and are engaging in behaviors that were part of your romantic re...
by Ashleah
Sat Mar 14, 2015 1:04 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Sneaking out for sex? HELP, strict parents!
Replies: 10
Views: 12200

Re: Sneaking out for sex? HELP, strict parents!

There is no way for me to know how this will turn out. But again, I'm not a fan of sneaking. I just want to reinforce that these are decisions that you get to make for yourself :) As you said, the guilt is making you feel bad about decisions that are yours. What seems to be standing in the way is no...
by Ashleah
Sat Mar 14, 2015 8:20 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Broken Condom but on the Pill?
Replies: 18
Views: 6786

Re: Broken Condom but on the Pill?

Hi celica,

Glad to hear that you practicing some self care activities. Please refer to the instructions that came with the pregnancy test. It will let you know when to take the test in order to get accurate results.
by Ashleah
Sat Mar 14, 2015 8:11 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Sneaking out for sex? HELP, strict parents!
Replies: 10
Views: 12200

Re: Sneaking out for sex? HELP, strict parents!

Hi Meisa, I'd like to focus on other things you've said here as oppose to your risk with sneaking. In general, I do not think sneaking to do anything is a good idea unless it's for your safety. Sneaking and lying would likely put you in a position where you would have to continue to sneak and lie wh...
by Ashleah
Thu Mar 12, 2015 9:12 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Condom Leak?
Replies: 6
Views: 4024

Re: Condom Leak?

no problem :D
by Ashleah
Wed Mar 11, 2015 6:36 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Forced Gyno Visit
Replies: 35
Views: 9494

Re: Forced Gyno Visit

When you call these organizations what are you asking or telling them? If you are calling sexual assault centers they are more than likely geared towards making sure you are not currently in a dangerous environment and helping connect you with mental health services like counseling. Are you interest...
by Ashleah
Wed Mar 11, 2015 6:35 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Forced Gyno Visit
Replies: 35
Views: 9494

Re: Forced Gyno Visit

The purpose of calling DHS is to make a report you are not safe with your mom which will help get you in your dad’s custody. Your dad or stepmom can call and tell them about all of the things you have told us here. Everything that you have said should at least qualify as an assessment. The weed, the...
by Ashleah
Wed Mar 11, 2015 6:34 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Forced Gyno Visit
Replies: 35
Views: 9494

Re: Forced Gyno Visit

If I am being honest, I can not tell you with any certainty if your mom will face any legal charges for the forced gyno visit. This is a complex situation in which your legal rights were definitely violated but, as you are seeing, many people do not know how to handle. If your goal is for your mothe...
by Ashleah
Wed Mar 11, 2015 6:33 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Forced Gyno Visit
Replies: 35
Views: 9494

Re: Forced Gyno Visit

I’m really sorry about the way you have been feeling lately. You are dealing with a lot and we are more than happy to help you in any way that we can. I know you are trying really hard to get someone to just listen and help you figure out what to do. We do want to help you but this is something that...
by Ashleah
Tue Mar 10, 2015 9:46 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What does trust feel like?
Replies: 2
Views: 3319

Re: What does trust feel like?

For me, trust is my sense of security. It's feeling safe with my partner and believing that I am a consideration in the decisions they make (in regards to our relationship). It is feeling comfortable with our relationship at all times. I think it much easier to tell if I person is not trustworthy. B...
by Ashleah
Tue Mar 10, 2015 7:40 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: True or false pre cum question(s)
Replies: 1
Views: 1513

Re: True or false pre cum question(s)

There isn't any risk of pregnancy if someone has pre-ejaculate on their fingers. There is very small chance of pregnancy (but not likely) if someone ejaculates on their hand and rubs it on the vulva or puts their fingers in the vagina immediately following. Check this out too. It doesn't talk about ...
by Ashleah
Tue Mar 10, 2015 6:57 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Forced Gyno Visit
Replies: 35
Views: 9494

Re: Forced Gyno Visit

I'm very sorry that you were not able to find any help. It is unfortunate when services that are intended to assist fail in that respect. We want to make sure that you get support around the assault. Would you be willing to try another abuse and sexual assault center or other agencies? If you give m...
by Ashleah
Tue Mar 10, 2015 6:20 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Condom Leak?
Replies: 6
Views: 4024

Re: Condom Leak?

Hi michaela,

Thank you for being patient. You are correct. If the condom remained in place and there were no tears then it did it's job.
by Ashleah
Sun Mar 08, 2015 10:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Light period, cause for worry?
Replies: 1
Views: 1234

Re: Light period, cause for worry?

Hey Hypochondriac17,

Doesn't seem like you need to worry. Even if you are pretty regular, variation in periods is not unusual at all :)
by Ashleah
Sun Mar 08, 2015 10:04 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Condom Leak?
Replies: 6
Views: 4024

Re: Condom Leak?

Hi michaela, Welcome to the boards! We can't know for sure if there was any leaking. Did you notice any fluids outside of the condom? Using a condom when the penis is flaccid can increase the chances of it slipping off. Which you said did not happen. Also, unless there was some type of tear, fluid w...
by Ashleah
Fri Mar 06, 2015 7:01 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Almost 40 days without a period?
Replies: 5
Views: 2620

Re: Almost 40 days without a period?

A loose condom would slip or fall off during sex. It's possible there was not enough space at the tip of the condom for the semen. Make sure you check out the link! It describes the proper technique for putting on condoms.
by Ashleah
Mon Mar 02, 2015 8:23 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: PMS symptoms getting too bad!
Replies: 6
Views: 2359

Re: PMS symptoms getting too bad!

Hi Hypochondriac, We can't say what is "normal" for one persons body. Is this new for you? I noticed you brought up symptoms back in NOV/DEC. Either way, It is best to check in with your healthcare provider to rule out any other health issues and/or get some assistance with managing your s...